Friday, October 7, 2011

Quick Note: Name Change

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We’re changing the name of the 11PM lights out orgies from BLÅCKØUT to ECLÏPSE.  Seems someone else is using it already.


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Sunday, October 2, 2011

BLÅCKØUTS and Returning Regulars – Post #35


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“Even if you have, even if you need
I don’t mean to stare, we don’t have to breed
We could plant a house, we could build a tree
I don’t even care, we could have all three”
                    ~K. Cobain, ‘91



Sunday 10/2/11 12:36 P.M.
At home

It’s weird that I love the fall, even though I pretty much hated school.  Maybe I’m a masochist at heart.  Or maybe it’s because hockey season starts.

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For at least the last year, I’ve meant to blog on the subject of returning regulars.  That is, guys who were regulars, but stopped coming for whatever reason, then come back.  I’d kept this idea on the back burner.

But then I realized something, the other night, when I was walking back to my apartment with food I’d picked up at Veselka.  I passed a bodega I used to go to regularly and saw the cashier standing outside.  I felt a little embarrassed that I haven’t been going there as much, as though I’d been disloyal to him.  As I turned the corner on East 7th, I realized that if I felt that way about a store clerk whose name I don’t even know, then how must former regulars feel about returning here even after we’d developed more of a relationship? 

Other than some basic courtesy, I look for nothing more from my guys than their doing whatever makes them happy.  If that means not coming for a while, then that’s what I want for them.  Men that bring eager energy are part of that which makes a hot orgy, while stale energy is stale energy.

The other night, someone came who hadn’t been here since New Year’s Eve (when we were at the Perry St. location).  He told me he’d just broken up with someone he met at that party, another regular whom I also hadn’t seen. 

Guys get boyfriends, guys move, guys get bored.  There are any number of reasons why a guy might stop coming.

I understand that your sex life, your life, has nothing to do with loyalty to me.  As far as I’m concerned, it’s all about you.  If you come to every other orgy for two or three months, then stop coming, I’m not bothered by it.  I just figure you’re doing what you have to do or whatever makes you happy.

When a guy does return, often he’ll have this look on his face like I’m going to give him this “where have you been?” look.  Nah-ah.  I usually just smile broadly and am happy to see him. 

Incidentally, a guy might also get that look if he’s come to a few in a row...like I’m going to judge him.  Heck, if I can regularly aid you on your sexual trip, that’s great, and it also means I must be doing something right.

Just know that you’re free to return without feeling uncomfortable. 

And we hope to see you again soon.

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In October, and likely beyond, every evening party will become a blackout orgy from 11PM to 2AM.  Lights Out is a very popular concept for sex parties and one I haven’t tried yet.  Tonight will be the first one.

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Let me know if you’re a web designer and interested in helping me to develop theorgyguy.com.  It’s a solid concept and should be fun to do.  It’s also a paying gig.

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One bit of housecleaning: shoot your jizz where you’re at, but anyone who throws his used condom anywhere but in the rather large and conspicuous trash can, will be told to leave and not come back.  I’ve got a sign up in the bathroom, but a few guys are still doing it.  Throw ‘em on your own floor.


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